3 Questions You Must Ask Before Ending A Relationship

Building a life with someone and trusting them isn't always easy, but when you have the good times and form a bond, being part of a couple can be really great.

However, if things are going downhill rapidly, when do you know to call time on your relationship?

* Have I looked at the bigger picture?

Looking at the problems you believe are causing concern in your relationship. If they’re small, manageable problems that don’t affect your long-term plans or goals, write a list of solutions that you can work on together for a happier solution.

* Have I shared my feelings with my partner without blaming or shaming?

It’s easy to be annoyed or angry at a partner, but have you shared your upset without laying blame at their door? A lot of us skip this step, only letting our partner know how serious things are by announcing that the relationship are over.

* Have I made the same effort as my other half in solving the problem?

While we might tell someone that they need to improve on their effort or relationship skills, any relationship requires two people to make efforts in maintaining its healthy balance.