When you're deep in a relationship, things can sometimes feel unclear. Everything might seem fine, yet there's often a small voice in your head questioning it. There are plenty of signs that your relationship has staying power but just as many red flags that it might not.
Being in the thick of it, caught up in emotions, can make it hard to see things clearly.
This is even tougher if you've been hurt before. Past pain can leave you guarded, causing you to misread situations or assume the worst even when it's not necessary.
Sometimes, you just need a little reassurance.
# They're the first person you reach out toWhen something significant happens—good or bad—your partner is the first person you call. Not your friends, not your family. Them. That says a lot about your connection.
# You’re comfortable being honest
If you can't speak openly with your partner, it’s unlikely to last. A strong relationship is one where both people can be their true selves. After all, no one wants to be stuck pretending forever.
# They won’t let you give up on yourselfWhen you're feeling defeated, your partner steps up. Life has its low points, but someone who truly cares will support and encourage you until you're back on your feet.
# You both make time for each otherSuccessful relationships require effort and shared time. Personal space matters, sure—but if you're only seeing each other once a week, that's not enough. Quality time is key.
# They accept your flawsEveryone has flaws. Your partner knows yours, and you know theirs—and you both accept each other anyway. That mutual understanding builds deep connection.
# They listen—really listenEven if the topic isn’t exciting, a lasting couple listens to each other. Sometimes, there's a deeper meaning beneath the words that deserves attention and care.
# You celebrate each otherHealthy couples give compliments and celebrate wins—big or small. Your partner should be your loudest cheerleader, and you should be theirs, too.
# They support your ambitionsYou don’t need to chase goals side-by-side, but emotional support from your partner makes a big difference. They believe in you—and they show it.
# There's no rivalrySuccess shouldn't cause jealousy in a strong relationship. If your partner wins, you both win. You lift each other up, not compete against each other.
# They ask for your helpA truly connected couple leans on each other. Asking for help shows trust and vulnerability. It’s a clear sign you’re a team that can face anything together.