4 Ways To Add Excitement To Your Intimacy

Let’s face it, after six months, six years or 25 years most couples move away from an exciting intimate relationship to one of boredom. Inadequacy. Frustration.

Here are four top keys to help you add that spice and excitement back into your sex life that may have been missing for many months at the least, and many years at the worst.

* Asking questions

When was the last time you asked your partner what they desire regarding your intimate experiences? When was the last time you sent them a text or an email especially, which are much more effective than talking in person, and asked them what they would like to do differently in regards to intimacy? In regards to sex?

* Send a message

Now assuming that you’ve already done the work and you have minimal if any resentments, let’s go back to what I stated above. Send an email, or text to your partner today, not tomorrow, not Sunday, but today and ask them what is missing for them in their sex life with you. Let’s see if they will risk being open and vulnerable and give you a key to what they desire to make your intimate life more exciting.

* Next is the big conversation

After you’ve exchanged emails and text, which is a safe way to begin adding spice to your intimate life, now we have to sit down and actually face each other to discuss what direction the relationship needs to go in.This should always be done outside of the bedroom. Not during sex, not just after sex because we are all way too vulnerable in that period of time.

* Take control of the intimate experience

Have you ever told your partner that you were going to take control of the intimate experience you wanted to share with them this evening? Have you ever sent them a text saying “when you get home tonight, I want you to close your eyes and simply walk into the bedroom? I will hold your hand so you won’t walk into any walls, but I’m really excited about what I have planned for you.