5 Simple Tips On How To Talk To An Attractive Girl

Drop your late-night mirror rehearsals, tear down those song lyrics and press the delete button on all those movie dialogues you have mugged up. None of those is going to work out. And just so you know, women on average take about 3 minutes to decide what they think of a man – so you have just 180 seconds to seal the deal. (Source)

Don’t let the pressure of performing in that slim time frame get to you, though! However, if your idea of flirting is sending memes or awkwardly saying “your face is nice”, perhaps you should read this article word to word. While searching for the answer to “how to talk to a pretty girl”, don’t ask your extremely attractive friends for advice. Nothing they say will work, they don’t realize it takes overthinkers two and a half business days to figure out how to text a girl.

# Look into her eyes

The first important tip for any good conversation is to maintain eye contact with your partner. Making eye contact with an attractive girl sends all sorts of positive signals her way. First, you are giving her a really good first impression that you are not intimidated by her (no matter how much you are sweating within). You’re conveying that you are confident and sure about yourself.

# Try to connect with her

Gorgeous, beautiful girls are not different from anybody else; they are humans like all of us. They are tired of people trying to impress them with their achievement medals, celebrity pals, 6-pack abs, or 6-figure paychecks. They want someone to connect with them on an intellectual as well as on an emotional level, much like most of us. But most men look at them as eye candies and talk only about themselves to create a good impression. Needless to say, that’s not going to work.

# Be a good listener

In the process of doing all the talking, don’t forget that you have to be a listener as well. Speaking to a beautiful girl is fine but you have to listen too. Try not to talk about yourself all the time, your past, your likes, your dislikes. While it is natural to talk about yourself and to let her know what you have in life, it’s not the best way to connect. Your motive is not to brag about yourself, but to make her feel special in your company.

# Ask the right questions

When you start asking about her, make sure you don’t go into full-on interviewer mode or too interrogative — that could set her mood off big-time. Try asking meaningful questions like, “What is the one thing in the world that you cannot live without?”, “What is your biggest achievement to date?” “If you were given one superpower what would that be?” This will definitely keep her hooked to you.

# Build points of similarity

Everyone develops an instant liking for someone who shares similar interests with them. If you really want her to show an interest in you, show her how much you have in common. Within no time, you’ll go from being a stranger to a potential friend. However, if the only similarity you can find is that you both like pizza, you need to dig deeper. Everybody likes pizza.