5 Tips To Be A Good Parent

Raising a family while keeping your life balanced is an art form. Here are 5 tools that I have seen make life in the family lane a much nicer ride.

* Identify your child's strengths

You can use them to build your child’s self-esteem, helping to provide the confidence he or she needs to tackle whatever seems difficult. Children will be more willing to listen and understand how to correct adverse behaviors if their dignity is intact.

* Punishing a child is not as effective as using praise and rewards

Rather than focusing on weaknesses, find ways to assist your child in developing to his or her full potential. When encouraged, children will acquire talents to compensate for any deficiencies.

* Avoid negative emotional reactions, such as anger, sarcasm, and ridicule

If your child has problems with control, negativity will only make him or her feel worse. Use short and mild suggestions to remind your child to focus, like “P.A.” for “pay attention.”

* Don’t compare siblings

If a child thinks his or her brother or sister is favored, it can create a rivalry that may last the rest of their lives and cause problems in your family. Make sure your kids know that they are loved equally.

* Get support if you need it

Life with children is a roller coaster ride. Understanding that there will be negative aspects to child-rearing and getting some professional advice when necessary will help you maintain your sanity and enjoy the experience.