Here Are 11 Tips You Can Use To Be The Best Girlfriend

Before you start getting any funny ideas, you need to fully understand that you will always be compared to your boyfriend's ex-girlfriends, even subconsciously. But instead of being pressured into being what his former girlfriends were like, always try being yourself and everything will work out perfectly. And on top of that, you can also do the following:

# The best girlfriend is a little dorky

There's no guy out there who'd hook up with a girl who doesn’t look smart. A bit of light reading and watching the news will go a long way in the relationship. There's always a catch though, so if you want a perfect relationship, then you need to actually read things and not pretend to know it all because those are two very different things. If you read and look the part, you will almost always challenge him. He will love you for thinking critically and intelligently. It won’t be long before he decides you are the best girlfriend he's ever had since you are exhibiting a good quality that every guy wants in his girl.

# Surprising him will make you the best girlfriend

Another very important quality all of the best girlfriends have is surprising their man from time to time. Men love coming home to find you looking ravishing in that nice, tiny bikini, ready to rumble. You can also plan a surprise party for him with lots of food and booze. If he is a staunch Christian, surprise him with a new bible or a nice DVD from his favorite preacher. He is your man, for crying out loud! That means that you should know a thing or two about his interests and kinks if you want to be the best girlfriend ever. Always make sure that your surprises are perfectly tailored to him so that he can appreciate them. If you have no clue about what he wants, you should spend more quality time together and when the opportunity arises, just ask him what’s up.

# Matching outfits is a hallmark of the best girlfriend

It might seem a little childish, but men sure love it when their girls get them matching outfits since shopping is usually seen as a girl affair. And since you are the best girlfriend he's ever had, it is your responsibility to go out there and get your hands on the perfect matching outfits. If not, you can just print out cute slogans like "her king" and "his queen" on t-shirts and he will most certainly be pleased with your efforts. It will go a long way in cementing your relationship with you seated comfortably on the throne as the queen. A little effort spent on matching outfits shows that you love each other and that you are the perfect, high-quality woman for him. And that is how you win the title of the best girlfriend ever.

# The best girlfriend has makeup-free days

Though your man won’t admit it, he prefers you when you are makeup free, especially when you are cuddling together in bed. The best girlfriend is comfortable with or without makeup. So, inasmuch as you look perfect with your makeup when going out, always make sure that you are doing your best to look good without makeup too. Don't feel pressured to look perfect all the time for him. It's okay to decide not to wear makeup for a casual weekend. As the best girlfriend he's ever had, you need to show him that you are perfect in your own skin, since it shows that you are a high-quality woman. Unfortunately, hiding under a ton of makeup 24/7, 365, won't help much if you want him to fall in love with who you really are.

# The best girlfriend can wield a joystick

The perfect definition of the best girlfriend ever is a girl who is good when it comes to video games. Guys are competitive in nature, especially when it comes to video games. And to have a woman who knows the joystick controllers like the back of her own hands will most certainly make the relationship a little interesting. If you quarrel on who should do the cooking next, you can settle the debate with a round in Super Smash Brothers or Tekken. Playing video games is also a great way to blow off steam and bond. If you do this, or at least show some interest in games that he enjoys, then he will most certainly love you and put you on a pedestal as his best girlfriend. It takes time to perfect your moves with a joystick so practice with your man.

# The best girlfriend is sporty

A girl who loves watching or playing sports will always make the best girlfriend for any guy. Why is this so? It’s because men stereotypically love sports. And if a woman loves sports too, she will be more eager to discuss sports with her man, which will make things easier for him. The best girlfriend doesn’t have to know everything when it comes to sports, but if she shows an effort, then the man will be happy. But remember, don’t force yourself! Especially if the sport isn’t your thing. Still, that doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t support him. Is his home team playing? Put on his oversized jersey and eat your popcorn, and his popcorn, and everyone else’s popcorn while the match is on.

# Cookers and cleaners make the best girlfriends

The best girlfriend knows how to cook and clean. I know girls today are all about empowerment and I couldn’t agree more. It’s time that women got the recognition that they wholeheartedly deserve. However, knowing how to cook and clean are still important life skills. Everyone, man or woman, single or taken, should know the basics of cleaning your own house and be able to make at least a few delicious meals. Take turns in the kitchen. If your man cooks today, make a point of cooking tomorrow. Sometimes you can decide to cook and clean for the entire week just for the sake of it. Doing that will help him see a future with you as the best girlfriend he's ever had. Even if your cooking isn’t perfect, you can always work on it. Trying hard to learn is a very amazing quality that any woman needs to have.

# The best girlfriend always has goals

There is nothing more arousing than a girl who has goals because it shows she is of the highest quality. And the best girlfriend will not only show that she is high quality but will also make it perfectly clear that she can’t be with a man who doesn’t have goals too. And if that isn’t going to challenge you, then you are definitely never going to win in your entire life. Any man in his right mind will want to have a woman who challenges him over and over. That will make you his best girlfriend ever. And if you are his best girlfriend, then it shows that both of you do have a future together that goes beyond sharing a bed for a night.

# The best girlfriend can slay in any outfit

A man has an ego that needs occasional stroking. Good thing the ego-stroking can be done in countless ways, which is an advantage only the best girlfriend can make good use of. She knows she is already hot and she will use her fashion sense to accentuate it, just so her man can get that street cred for having the hottest girl on the block. That is why men don’t have a problem with their girls taking an entire decade behind closed doors applying makeup and getting dressed. If your man is keen on fashion or simply patient, you can ask him to help you choose what to wear. You can also get some hints from women's magazines, which will most certainly give you a head start in almost everything happening in your wardrobe. The same also applies while in bed. You want to put on those nice, provocative outfits that will leave your man drooling over you long before he takes you to bed. Remember, research in this sector is key. Find some hot styles that don't just look good, but make you feel great too.

# The best girlfriend is always handy

One of the best things that a girlfriend can do is be handy around the house. When your man is fixing the plumbing, always be on the lookout and ready to hand over the flathead screwdriver, even if it will take you an hour to find it (because you have no idea what that means). You can also hang around when he's changing the lights and you can hold the ladder for him. You'll also come in handy if you want to break in certain furniture pieces like the bed, if you know what I mean. The best girlfriend knows that doing such things, even though she doesn’t have to, are definitely going to make her life amazing at the end of it all. Even though you might suck at being handy at first, you will be perfectly fine with time because, well, someone once said that practice makes perfect, right?

# The best girlfriend takes cute random photos

Nothing catches an authentic emotion than a spontaneous photo. When told to pose for a photo, people always fake happiness, emotions, and body language. But the best girlfriend knows that nothing beats a random photo when it comes to bringing back special memories. A time will come when you are both old and wrinkly and have pictures of your honeymoon, or the day one of you was promoted. Just by seeing that, it will cheer you up and allow you to look back on all the good times you had together. Taking photos while you are in bed is especially sweet, and seeing them decades later will only make your relationship even stronger. You should, therefore, make a habit of taking such random photos and everything will definitely work out in your favor.