10 Major Signs Of A Player You Need To Know

There is potentially nothing worse than being with a player. A player gets his name because he “plays around” or “plays the field.” If you think that you can bench the player, just know that you are not the first, and there is a good chance that you won’t be the last one to think so. Your first step? Know the signs of a player!

Many players are incognito until the ball is in motion, but that doesn’t mean there aren’t subtle hints that indicate a red flag to his intentions. If you see these flags on the field, move along and find someone who just wants to play on one court—yours.

# He is way too forward

Players are called so because they got game. A player knows all the right things to say and comes on way too strong and makes it endearing, not creepy. An art form, the player is all about winning at any cost. So, they put it all out there up front to see if you are into the game or if they should find a worthier opponent.

# You feel like you are being sold something but not quite sure what

A player is somewhat like a used car salesman. The only difference is that you know what the used car salesman tries to sell you. A player sells himself but in a much subtler way. That is why you feel like you are being worked over, you are.

# He’s dressed to the T

Players perfect the art of attraction. They know what to say and what to wear. If a guy approaches you and is way too trendy, definitely too flashy, and manicured to the nines, you probably are dealing with someone who has been around the pickup block many times = player.

# He smells like a cologne bottle

The player knows how to use all of their wiles to win you over. That includes not just how they look but how they smell. If you catch a whiff of him standing six feet away, it is safe to think that he is either a player, or at best, working way too hard with reason.

# Everyone at the club seems to know him as if he is there every night

A player can’t keep his game hidden from everyone. If everyone behind the bar knows him, the bouncers know him, and the wait staff knows his favorite drink without asking, he is in the club a lot. If he goes to a single’s club frequently, it isn’t for the good food, and this is one of those glaring signs of a player you can’t ignore.

# You receive the evil eye from other girls around you

A player is excellent at pissing girls off. If you suddenly get an evil eye from other girls around him when he approaches you, that means you aren’t his first victim. Don’t worry they aren’t hating on you. But they definitely give you a heads up that they hate him for his playing ways.

# He has a comeback for everything

If you feel like you had this conversation with him before, you play with a player. A player knows every little witty comeback to what you have to say because they heard it all before and prepared very well for any situation. Trial and error and experience make them an expert at making everything sound rehearsed.

# He is witty and charming

The only reason that players get away with being players is their wit and charm. If he is straight up, all up on you instantly, and trying to charm your pants off then it is intentional. He uses his attraction to your disadvantage and shows his true team colors.

# His cellphone blows up every two seconds

The player is a very busy man. His phone is blowing up with all the girls he either lies to, keeps on the sidelines, or pissed off. My suggestion? Don’t become one of them. If the phone goes off all the time, something is going on… It usually isn’t good.

# He is a natural out on the dance floor

If he has the moves that just make you want to grab and take hold, then he is probably a player. Most guys aren’t that into dancing, and if they are, it typically isn’t because they enjoy it. They learn their sexy dance moves to impress the ladies. Did you catch that? I didn’t say "lady," I said "ladies."