6 Tips To Get Luckier In Love

Popular dead guys have written all sorts of things about love. Some of them were good, while some were downright depressing. It’s okay to know both sides of the story, because that is what makes finding love fantastic. Knowing that people are miserable without it means that there is a point to this lifelong search.

If only love would just drop down on your front doorstep and ask for your hand in marriage, we would all be living in exquisite bliss. Sadly, love doesn’t find its way to most of us, and that’s what makes the prospect of giving up so enticing.

Don’t give up yet though, because there are ways to find true love. It’s okay to wait for it, but it’s better to get out there and make yourself open to the possibilities of finding it. The best part about falling in love is knowing that it’s a prize that was waiting to happen. You can’t appreciate it without working for it.

# Smile

Find something to be happy about that you don’t have to ask for. Look at your life and appreciate the things that you already have. It’ll make things easier for you because you’re not moping around, simply because you haven’t found the love of your life. Besides, everyone knows that the happiest person in the room is the most attractive one.

# Be open

I keep saying be open to the possibility of love, but that’s not the only thing you need. You need to show your true colors and be your best self. Trying to be someone you’re not has never really been a success for anyone who wants to be happy. Once a person gets to know the real you, the feelings you develop for each other will inevitably lead to a better and happier relationship.

# Have fun

Don’t make the search for true love a job. Don’t invest all your time in finding the person you want to spend your life with. Yes, the global population is significantly imbalanced in terms of gender, but it’s not like everyone’s already paired up. The person for you is still out there. Why not enjoy yourself while waiting for them?

# Look beyond the flaws

Your Mr. or Ms. Right probably exists, but they’re not here now, are they? Mr. or Ms. Right Now, however, is right in front of you. You can’t know everything about a person at the first glance. There are layers to every person and not exploring them may cause you to lose your chance at finding love. Even if the relationship doesn’t work out, the least you can tell yourself is that you tried.

# Stop fixating

The more you fixate on a person that’s not interested, the more you close yourself off to those who want to be in a relationship with you. If you fail to notice the people who should matter, why bother looking for love at all?

# Look your best

You don’t have to change your appearance, but you do have to improve on it. Wear what’s appropriate in different settings, be as clean as possible and always mind your manners. You never know who you’ll run into or meet in random places, so it’s best to be on your game whenever you go out.