10 Signs To Recognize A Selfish People

When you're in a relationship with a selfish person, no matter what you do, they'd constantly make you feel like you aren’t giving enough back to them. Even the love you have for this person would feel one sided and painful, because none of your feelings would be reciprocated.

A relationship with a selfish person would make you feel like you're living through a heartbreak every day. No matter what you do, they'd still pick flaws with you or overlook your nice side. And even your nicest friendly or romantic gestures would be treated as ordinary and nothing spectacular.

And while you try to please them by bending over backwards, their expectations from you would constantly increase all the time. Their lack of appreciation for the things you do for them too, would be apparent. And before you know it, you'd be hurt all the time and craving for the smallest sign of appreciation from this selfish person just to feel noticed or feel like you're doing something right.

# A selfish person is excessively friendly and will go out of their way to be nice to you, though only at the beginning of the relationship.

# A selfish friend or partner always asks for favors, big or small.

#They always squirm out of helping you when you need their help.

# You can sense a selfish person’s fakeness when they talk to others. They try to appear very friendly and sweet to everyone, even if you know that they hate the person.

# They use others all the time. And they share a laugh with you and tell you how they used someone else to get something done.

# Selfish people are people pleasers. But once you get to know them well, they start to show their lazy and aloof side.

# If you meet someone who’s a kissass who’s always eager to please you with compliments or fake smiles, stay away from them. A truthful person may seem harsh, but they say things the way they see it. Excessively friendly people almost always have ulterior motives that are selfish.

# A selfish friend or lover never commits to anything unless they can get some benefit or favor out of it. They would never do anything selflessly for your benefit.

# A selfish person always has a carefree attitude and takes nothing seriously. Even when you talk about how hurt you feel, they make you feel stupid for making a big deal out of nothing.

# Selfish people are liars and manipulators. They never want to apologize because they think you’re beneath them. Instead, they resort to lies.