10 Ways To Be Funny Around Guys And Make Them Want To Keep You Around

Most girls want to be liked by guys—and one of the most attractive qualities is a sense of humor. There’s something irresistibly charming about a girl who can make a guy and his friends laugh. But being funny around guys isn’t always as easy as it sounds.

You can’t just tell random jokes you find funny and expect the guys around you to laugh along. That’s where many girls go wrong—they misjudge the moment or the type of humor and end up feeling awkward. If you want to genuinely make guys laugh and enjoy being around you, there’s a better way to go about it.

Here are some key tips to help you win them over with your wit and personality:

# Never Compromise Yourself Just to Be Funny

This is rule number one. Never force yourself into saying or doing something that makes you feel uncomfortable just to get a laugh. If a joke crosses your personal boundaries or would leave you feeling ashamed, skip it. No joke is worth compromising your self-respect.

# Understand Their Humor Style

You can’t make someone laugh unless you know what makes them laugh. Everyone has a different sense of humor—some love sarcasm, others prefer dry wit, and some go for silly or slapstick comedy. Pay attention to what kind of jokes they laugh at, then tailor your humor to match their style.

# Observe How They Joke With Each Other

Watch and learn. The way guys interact with their friends reveals a lot about what they find funny. Take mental notes on their jokes, the topics they tease each other about, and the tone they use. Mimicking the general style (without forcing it) can help you blend in and get laughs.

# Use Sarcasm (But Wisely)

Sarcasm is a classic and widely appreciated form of humor—when done right. Just make sure your sarcasm is clear enough to be understood. Some people miss the tone and take it literally, which can backfire. So use it sparingly and with the right crowd.

# Make Jokes They Can Relate To

Inside jokes work because they tap into shared experiences or interests. Similarly, try to joke about things guys are already familiar with. Making fun of topics they don’t understand—like periods or makeup routines—might just confuse them. Reference things they know well, and they’ll not only laugh but appreciate your relatability.

# Find Out What They Like (and Don’t Like)

Take the time to learn about their interests. When you know what they love (or hate), you can use that knowledge to your comedic advantage. Light teasing or playful jokes about things they dislike can create instant connection and laughter—just keep it light-hearted and fun.

# Let Your Silly Side Shine

Don’t be afraid to be goofy. The way you act around your closest girlfriends—the funny faces, random dance moves, or quirky comments—can be just as entertaining around guys. If your friends find you hilarious when you’re being yourself, chances are guys will too.

# Show a Bit of Your Naughty Side (If You’re Comfortable)

If you’re someone who enjoys playful banter or making cheeky jokes, don’t hold back—just read the room. Most guys enjoy a bit of crude humor, especially when it’s unexpected and well-timed. Just remember: being funny doesn't mean being vulgar. Keep it fun, not uncomfortable.

# Use the Element of Surprise

Surprising humor works wonders. When a quiet or shy girl suddenly cracks a hilarious one-liner, it takes everyone off guard—in the best way. Don’t be afraid to speak up. The shock factor often makes the joke even funnier.

# Master the Art of Timing

Timing is everything in comedy. Knowing when to drop a punchline can make or break the joke. Some moments call for a quick quip, while others benefit from a delayed response. With practice and observation, you’ll develop a sense of when to speak up for maximum impact.