6 Signs The Guy You Are Dating Has Another Girlfriend Already

Ladies, listen up.

You’ve been dating this guy for a while now and so far, everything’s great. But somewhere down the line, you notice that something’s not right. Your new man’s behavior seems a little off and you can’t put a finger on what exactly is the matter.

You tell yourself you’re just imagining things; that you’re just so used to being burned before that you always want to find something wrong when everything just feels so right. Well, for one, he’s such an eligible bachelor and you can’t even believe such a wonderful guy hasn’t been taken yet.

Or is he with someone else, like a girlfriend, other than you? Is the guy you’re dating really already taken?

# Unanswered phone calls

This is one of the most common red flags to watch out for when a guy you’re dating is already taken. It’s common for people in relationships to want to call each other just to check in or say “Hi” but when you do this to your guy, he doesn’t answer the phone.

Often, guys in a relationship would only prefer to text and would only answer your call at certain times of the day, especially when he’s at work. When he’s home, he rejects your calls or even turns his phone off.

# Where’s your phone?

Aside from the mystery of the unanswered phone calls, he is also very secretive when it comes to his phone. He keeps it hidden or out of your reach whenever he’s with you. He doesn’t answer calls on his phone when you’re around, or when he does, he goes outside or moves to another room. He also keeps it password-protected.

# Pseudonym

Your name is stored with a different name or some cryptic pseudonym on his phone. This alone should raise red flags. A guy who hides your name under a different name on his phone definitely has something to hide, more specifically another woman who checks on his phone too.

# Weekend bubble

He is never available on weekends. Whenever you ask him, he tells you he has work on weekends, or some other excuse. You also notice that there are certain times when he is unavailable.

# Holiday hoopla

Fourth of July, Thanksgiving, Christmas, and even Valentine’s have come and gone and yet, he never spends the holidays with you. Again, he tells you he has to work or has to be out of town. Even if he tries to make up for missing out on the holidays with you by giving you gifts, a guy who can’t spend any holiday with you may be spending it somewhere else—with someone else.

# Always your place

He always shows up at your doorstep at the most unexpected times. You find it utterly romantic—that is, until you suggested a change. You asked him if you can spend the night at his place and he gives you what you know is a lame excuse. That’s when you realize he never really invited you over.