6 Signs When He Is Flirting With You

If you are wondering whether he really likes you, if he is interested in you in THAT way, or if he is just being friendly, read on to find out the awesome, subtle, and sometimes-weird things a guy can do when trying to impress a girl! Although these signs might not seem like clear indications of romantic interest, they are simple, subtle symptoms of a love bug bite.

# He asks you questions

If a guy is interested in you, he wants to know more about you. Kind of a no-brainer, right? Pay attention to how many questions a guy is asking you. If he’s flirting, he will be far more interested in talking about you than talking about himself.

Asking question after question is also a sign of nervousness—he is desperate to keep the conversation going, and is worried there will be awkward silences if he doesn’t keep talking. Look out for random and irrelevant questions—this just means he is desperately racking his brain to think of something else to say, bless him!

Remember: there is a difference between general questions that come about in everyday conversation, and questions targeted to get to know you better. One shows polite interest in small talk, while the other is an attempt to flirt.

# He finds things in common with you

When a guy is flirting with you, he will subtly try to find out what kind of things you like… and lo and behold, when he does, he will miraculously like them, too! He may well be genuinely trying to find out your interests and hobbies to see if you’d make a good match and have things to talk about in the long term, but he’s also trying to extract information out of you so he can impress you.

For example, if you mentioned you love horseback riding and the next time you talk to him, he not only loves it, but appears to know a lot of random information about it, you can safely conclude that he is interested.

# His body language

If he leans in or steps closer to you when having a conversation, he is probably trying his luck at showing you he is attracted to you.

Often this can happen unconsciously, but if you find yourselves standing oddly close together when having a chat, he almost certainly likes you.

Even if you are at a bar or club where the music is loud, if a guy comes closer to talk to you, he is interested. If he wasn’t, he just would tell you he couldn’t hear you, then leave! If he touches you when he talks to you *we’re talking a brush of the hand, a touch of the arm—not a full-on boob squeeze, obviously!* this is another positive sign that he wants to be more than just friends.

# He approaches you

This is all about confidence, of course, but if a guy comes up to you, especially if you haven’t met before, he is probably hitting on you *unless he needs directions*. If a guy comes up to you just to talk, it is more than likely because he finds you attractive!

# He acts differently when you are near

Whether it is getting really loud and showing off, or going really quiet and barely saying anything, if you notice a change of behavior in your guy whenever you are near, it is a sign that he likes you.

If you hang around in the same social groups as him, try to observe him from a distance, then join the conversation. If you can see a change, it is probably because you make him nervous—in a good way, of course!

# He teases you

One of the most obvious ways to tell if a guy is flirting with you is if he teases you. If he is always making fun of you *kindly*, he is probably trying to flirt with you. Laughter is the way to many people’s hearts, after all!