6 Surest Signs A Guy Is Flirting With You

Men are not as easy to read as we have been made to believe. We’ve always been told that women are mysterious, but men are simple-minded. You don’t need to know the signs a guy is flirting with you. That just is not true. When it comes to dating, romance, and, of course, flirting, men are just as complicated and mysterious as we are.

So much goes into flirting it can be difficult to decipher a joke’s intent. Was he complimenting you, teasing you, or just being a funny person? When a guy sweet talking you, whether you’re hoping he is or not, it is helpful to know some signs a guy is flirting with you.

# Body language

Body language is one of the most subtle signs a guy is flirting with you. It isn’t something you naturally pick up on without thinking about it.

If his arms are crossed at his chest he probably isn’t flirting. But if his body is open towards you, his feet are aimed in your direction, or if he is mimicking your body language, it is probably flirting.

# Body contact

If you aren’t flirting with someone you wouldn’t touch them, would you? He may brush his hand again yours, be eager to wipe a strand of hair off your face or put his arm around you.

# He listens

A guy flirting with you is actually going to listen to you. Unlike a guy making small talk or just being polite, he will ask follow-up questions and fully emerge in the conversation.

# He’s blushing

Sure, maybe he is just warm, but most likely he is blushing because he is talking to you. If you give him a compliment on his looks or personality or even his accomplishments, he wouldn’t blush unless he wanted to impress you.

# He’s nervous

Nerves go hand in hand with flirting for most people. Flirting is a form of putting yourself out there and saying you’re interested. Whether he thinks you’re stunning or endearing or even intimidating, he is probably nervous.

If he is sweating, fidgeting, playing with his sweatshirt zipper or straw wrapper, he is probably nervous. And that is sort of sweet.

# He teases you

Teasing has been a go-to flirting technique since kindergarten. When someone slightly insults you, it means they like you. I still can’t fully explain why, but I’m sure you’ve experienced it.

Usually, if you don’t like someone you won’t go out of your way to poke fun at them. If he mocks the way you pronounce a word, hold your wine glass, or that you love a different baseball team than him, he is likely flirting.