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6 Tips To Keep A Text Conversation Going With A Guy

By: Kratika Mon, 22 Nov 2021 12:27:49

6 Tips To Keep a Text Conversation Going With a Guy

When you’re trying to get to know someone, texting is a really valuable tool to use. You have time to think about what you’re going to say, you don’t have to deal with any awkward silences, and you’re through all the small talk right away. That is why you need to learn how to keep a text conversation going with a guy and make sure that you tick all of the boxes.

What happens to most of us when we text is that we tend to overdo it and become a bore.Texting is addictive and when you’re texting someone you like, sometimes it’s easy to freeze and only write “lol” or “yeah.” Or even worse, send essay-length paragraphs.

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# Relax

We know you like this guy, but if you’re freaking out already and you haven’t even sent a text yet, it’s not going to go well. You’ll overthink what you’re saying and it won’t be the natural you speaking.

So, just take a breath and chill out for a second before talking to him. Sure, he’s cute and all that but he’s just a guy. Repeat to yourself, “He’s just a guy.”

# Remember that conversation is a two-way street

This is the important part when you’re talking to a guy. You need to make sure the conversation is going both ways. If you’re the only one talking, then you need to back off. Don’t be the only one talking.

If you’re asking him questions but he’s not giving much back, then he may not be interested. If you only talk about yourself and forget to ask him questions, well, you come off self-absorbed.

# Stick to your style

Don’t try to change the way you text to impress him. Keep to your own personal style and stay true to that.

But this also means you need to be aware of the way he writes. You may use emojis when you speak which is fine, but if he doesn’t, don’t assume that he’s not interested. Everyone has their own style when it comes to texting.

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# Know when to stop the conversation

Just because the conversation is dying doesn’t mean that you aren’t connecting. Don’t try to force the conversation to continue.

Instead, when you see that it’s dying, tell him that you have to run or go to work. It adds some chase to the relationship as you’re the one letting go of the conversation rather than him.

# Throw in a couple of voice messages


Now some people really don’t like them or they’re unable to listen to them because of work. But, overall, voice messages are great. They’re another way to add a personalized touch to your texts.

Plus, sometimes your thumbs get sore, so, give them a rest by sending a voice message.

# Go easy with the replies

What we mean is, don’t send eight texts in a row because they’re taking more than two seconds to reply to you. Play it cool.

Remember, outside of the texting world he also lives an actual life. So, if he doesn’t reply for a couple of hours, don’t think of it as the end of the world. Just because there’s a lag in response time doesn’t mean he’s not interested in you or the conversation is over.

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