6 Tips To Make Love To A Man

Sex is a wonderful, joyful, and pleasurable thing. You may just be discovering the joys of sex, or you might have been having sex for years. You may have had many partners, or you may have only had a handful, or even just one. No matter what your sexual history, knowing how to make love to a man can be the difference between having vanilla sex, okay-sex, and having a mind-blowing romp in the sheets.So just how can you achieve the greatest sex you and your partner have ever had, and make him get teary-eyed just thinking of having sex with you? Follow these tips for the best, mind-blowing, earth-shattering sex!

# Talk to him

Being a good lover is all about great communication. Without talking to your man about what he wants, what he likes, and what his ultimate fantasies are, how will you know what works for him? No two guys are the same. Your ex might have loved it when you nibbled his ears, but your new partner might just think it’s ticklish, weird or gross.

Keep in mind, too, that a conversation about sex doesn’t have to be a forced or critical one.

Open a bottle of wine, get cozy, and share things with one another. Or, the next time you’re in the bedroom, just ask him, “Do you like it when I do this?” “Should I go faster/slow down?” You’ll get the answers you need, and it will make the sex between you all the better.

# Don’t be a prude – No one likes a prude

Making love is about exploring and doing something intimate, with someone intimate. It’s not just about sex anymore; it’s about expressing your feelings with each other and receiving that same level of expression in return.

Being a prude during this time means you’re restricted, limited, and not on that same level of connection. This doesn’t mean you should do something you’re not comfortable doing, but that you should try to be open-minded.

# His penis is not all of him

First and foremost, men make a big deal about their member. We all know this. Even if it’s not impressive, they’re pretty focused on it, one way or the other. Even if they think it’s small, it’s still their penis.

That being said, a man is not just his penis. It might be hard to believe this, so hold on to your hats, but there is a man all around that penis. And his balls, for that matter.

Don’t go straight for his dick, even though he wants you to. That’s the fun of it, the tease. You should wait to head down south, so he’s rock hard when you do.

# Guys have sexy zones too

All men have erogenous zones, just like women. Explore his body and see what he likes – maybe he likes it when you kiss his Adam’s apple, or his chest, his neck, his ears, or even his fingers. Or if you want to explore deeper, perhaps he likes it when you teabag him, or stick a finger up his butt! When you have sex, nothing is sacred anymore, so just go wild and push the boundaries of making love!

Put on something sexy, set the mood lighting, and explore these areas slowly and tenderly with your hands, your lips, and your tongue.

# Take control

Often, men are seen as the dominant party when it comes to sex. However, it’s nice to mix things up from time to time. So why not be brave and take control of the situation?

Coming onto him, telling him exactly what to do, pushing him up against the wall, tying him up, etc. can help to spice things up in the bedroom.

Let your imagination run wild, and he’ll surely realize what an awesome sex vixen you are.

# Be submissive when learning how to make love to a man

On the other hand, being submissive and letting your man take control can also be seriously hot. Let him guide you into different positions, hold your hands above your head, and maybe even give you a gentle spanking every now and again.

Letting him have all the control will make him feel powerful and manly, and there’s not much more of a turn-on for a guy than that.