6 Ways Guys Trick Girls Into Sleeping With Them

Men love sex. Women do, too, but most of the time it’s men who are more active when it comes to seeking it out. It’s not really a big problem, especially if they happen to find a woman who’s looking for the same thing. The problem arises, though, when a guy is willing to say or do just about anything to get laid.

Of course, there are some ladies who can read between the lines and immediately see that the guy is just looking to get into her pants. But there are also instances where guys use these little tricks to sleep with someone they’ve been dating for some time.

# He’ll promise you love and maybe even a relationship

The difference between most men and women is how they develop feelings for each other. A lot of women want to be sure that they really like the guy and that the feeling is mutual before they consider sleeping with him. But with most men, they’d want to sleep with a woman before they develop deeper feelings.

Many women already know this, and because of that, guys may sometimes promise that they’ll fall in love with you or that they already love you just so you’d agree to sleep with them. Sometimes, it’s true, especially for guys who are genuinely looking for something a little more serious. But in other cases, they use this ploy and then disappear once they get what they want.

# He’ll convince you that he’s really good in bed

You can tell that a guy wants to sleep with you if the topic of sex comes up pretty often. He’ll ask you what you like, what you’ve never tried and what you’re open to trying. Then once he knows what your preferences are, he might start to subtly brag about how women say he’s really good at doing a bunch of those moves that you like.

Don’t get us wrong. Sometimes, they are genuinely good in the sack. But you may start to wonder why he feels the need to say so. To put it simply, he’s trying to get you so turned on with his words that you’d be excited at the prospect of sleeping with him.

# He’ll make it seem like sleeping with him is a privilege

This can be considered the opposite of the technique above. Instead of telling you about his sexual prowess with tons of other women, he’ll tell you that he hasn’t had a lot of partners. He may say that he only has sex with someone who’s special to him. He says this so that when he asks you to finally sleep with him, you’ll immediately feel like you’re one of those special women that he’d consider sleeping with.

# I promise we’ll just hang out

Hanging out is fine. It’s more casual than a date, and it doesn’t require any commitment. The thing is, if he asks you to “hang out” at his place at 11pm while no one is around, then he may have an ulterior motive. Add in some wine or beers into the mix and you can be pretty sure he’s looking to get laid. And speaking of alcohol…

# He tries to get you tipsy

Once the shots are laid on the table, you’d definitely need to take a couple. Alcohol is a desperate guy’s best friend. It will get your inhibitions down and it’ll get his confidence up. After a couple of drinks, he’ll be pretty confident that you’ll be pliable enough to sleep with him. So if you feel like you’re with a guy who’s getting you drunk so you’d come home with him, quit while you’re ahead. That way, you’ll at least have a clear head if you do decide to sleep with him.

# I’ve never met anyone like you and other forms of flattery

Some guys rely on the power of flattery to get into a girl’s pants. And the sad part is, sometimes it works, especially if the girl has really low self esteem. Some women think that if they sleep with a guy, he’ll like her even more. But the problem with this is that they just end up getting used. Don’t let a few words be some guy’s ticket into your pants.