7 Ways To Text A Guy First Without Looking Desperate

Sometimes you get feeling for someone and it is developing day by day as you see him daily but you both can’t talk but you want to talk. I know for our society it was like every time guy should take efforts to make it happen but it is not compulsory that always a guy get feelings first so, as we all are human beings before boy or girl so anyone of us get feelings and obviously we should express it rather than waiting for boy to make the first move.

There is nothing wrong in texting a guy first. No it doesn’t make you look like desperate or needy. Even it makes you feel like confident and this effort should always admirable.

Let us learn how to text first.

# Text him something other than “hi”

So yes saying “Hi” is something very common to do as you need to do something more. Start talking about something you both have in common or you can also talk about any incidence. If you are talking at any social media accounts like Instagram then you can share memes and video clips that may start your conversation or make it happening and get interest in you. Your first text has to be something with a particular impact, and “hi” doesn’t just do the trick. It’s a boring opener, really.

# What’s your Goal of texting him?

So firstly find out what is your goal behind texting him so that your conversation will eventually lead to that. Like if you want to plan a meet with him then you should start your conversation to that end. The purpose of texting him should be the entire foundation of your texting relationship. If you want to land a date with him, everything you say moving forward should be towards that goal.

# Don’t text him late at Night

Late night texts are usually takes out our heart and we just said what we actually want, so it is very early to confess anything because you’ll give him the impression that you want something else. Maybe it’s okay to text him late at night when you get to know one another better when you’ve made it clear you’re not a booty call!

# Wait for him to reply

While we are texting sometimes we got excited because we are talking to the person we like so we don’t want to end the conversation so when we don’t get reply after the person seen it then we got upset, but I suggest you one thing that give him some time to reply may be he is thinking about anything and maybe he is not in mood because of his personal problem so give him space otherwise he may think that you are becoming desperate.

# Don’t be glued to your phone

As in excitement of talking with your favorite person you always glued to your phone or checking again and again that if you had received a message or not so in excitement you text him right away his message came. Please try to understand don’t reply right away. It’s okay to give it a couple of minutes or hours until you respond. In fact, this makes you seem like you have an interesting life.

Nobody wants to chat with someone not interesting, so don’t be afraid that you’ll lose him by texting back not a second later. Everyone is busy and has things going on in their lives, and he knows that. So, reply when you have time.

# Ask him Questions

Asking questions helps you in knowing him. Now, this isn’t a job interview, so you don’t need to grill him. Don’t ask him intense questions too early on either, but stay with light but interesting topics. Questions are always a fun way to get to know him so ask away!

# Let him Text first after once you did

Once you made a move and text him first then. Now it is not compulsorily needed to be the one who always text first as you had done your side now if they have interest in you they will make efforts otherwise let it be. As mentioned earlier, a conversation works both ways, so it should consist of mutual effort. If he doesn’t text you unless you text him, maybe he’s not as interested in you as you think.