8 Questions You Must Ask Your Guy Best Friend

Get the most out of him and learn all the burning questions to ask your guy best friend. That is what he is there for, right?

He is meant to be your sounding board, your confidant, and well, your friend, so use him as such. If you don’t, he is just going to waste!

One of the greatest benefits of having a boy best friend is to get some insight from the other side. You and your girlfriends see things one way while he may see things totally different.

# Are you a feminist?

This is something you can go years without knowing about someone by just avoiding the topic. Not only will this question give you the opening to a solid conversation, but it can give you insight into why he is or isn’t a feminist.

You can argue points and really learn a lot about each other. Is he a feminist but doesn’t want to be labeled as one because of all the bad press or intensity? Sharing these hot takes can really help you see things from his perspective, and he can surely learn a lot from you.

# What do you think my best quality is?

Your gal pal can’t answer this question the same way a guy can. He can give you a whole new perspective. And I guarantee if you ask your girl best friend and then your guy best friend this same question, you will get totally different answers.

Asking this question to your boy best friend gives you a level of insight you couldn’t get from a girl or a random guy. He knows you well enough to really be honest and accurate.

# What do you think my worst quality is?

The same goes for this one. If I ask my female friends this, they will say I don’t believe in myself enough or take enough risks. But a guy notices different things than girls do. He might say I give unsolicited advice or hold my tongue when I should share how I feel.

Now, try not to get offended by his answer. You asked, and he is just honest. He is less likely to give you the answer you want than a girl might. Ask your guy best friend this question will give you the answer you need to hear.

# Do I have any annoying habits?

It sounds weird, but I love hearing a guy’s answer to this, especially a guy best friend. This person knows you pretty well and spends a decent amount of time with you, but probably doesn’t tell you when you are doing something annoying. It doesn’t mean you have to change, but it is interesting to see what he finds annoying.

It can be anything from biting your lip to tapping your foot, slurping your Starbucks too loud, or second-guessing yourself. Your boy best friend will find different things about your annoying than you or girls in your life might.

# What was your first impression of me?

This is another question to ask your guy best friend that gives so much insight. Of course, you get to know someone after your first meeting, but you don’t often get to know what people first think of you.

Sure, you are just friends, but his first impression may be similar to any other guy in the future.

# Why don’t guys text back right away?

Girls have their own ideas about this, but a guy’s perspective changes the answer. We can overanalyze an unanswered text all day but ask a guy, and he will say it is because he is playing Fortnite. Seriously, asking your boy best friend this question can really help lessen your dating anxiety.

# Why do guys ghost?

Another interesting question and even more interesting answer from a guy’s point of view. I have written an article about this, but every guy’s answer differs just a bit, and from my experience, this response can go one of two ways.

He will either try to make an excuse or say there really is no reason. This can also let you know if he ghosts or not. And if he does, you can let him know how it feels being ghosted from a girl’s perspective, and it might give him some insight he needs. Asking your guy best friend this question can help both of you.

# Should I kiss a guy on the first date?

Everyone has their own opinion on this, and you do you, but his opinion may be intriguing. Once he gives you his reasoning for whatever his answer is, it could really change how you look at things.

This is a great question to ask your boy best friend specifically because he knows you and how you come off. He will know if kissing on the first date would be a good idea for you.