8 Things To Remember During Your First Conversation With Opposite Sex

First conversations are awkward, especially between the sexes. Hereís everything you need to know about how to keep a conversation going effortlessly.A conversation doesnít start and end with the words you choose to use. A lot more depends on your personality and the way you behave around this new friend youíre talking to. If you want to keep a conversation going without any awkwardness in the air, keep these 8 things in mind, and youíll have a much better chance of impressing the hottie youíre talking to.

# Appear comfortable

If you feel uncomfortable or awkward, the person youíre talking to will immediately sense the discomfort youíre feeling. And that would only make both of you feel more awkward. Relax, using these tips here, youíd already know everything about what you need to talk. Thereís no need to feel stressed by the conversation. You know what you need to say, donít you?

# Look around now and then

In between your conversation, every now and then, donít say anything for a couple of seconds. Just look around for a second or two, and then continue the conversation. Adding a few seconds of quiet time now and then initially will help the person youíre talking to feel more comfortable, even in silence.

But if you see their eyes light up with excitement, donít stop talking. They love your company already!

# Smile

Be warm when you talk to someone, especially if youíre trying to impress them. Smiling can do two things, let them know you like their company, and secondly, itíll help them feel more relaxed around you.

# But donít just smile!

Smiling and looking around without saying anything makes everything seem much more awkward. If you smile, make sure you say something to continue the conversation.

# Donít fidget

If you want to overcome the awkwardness, stop fidgeting. If you start fidgeting or looking around because you donít know what to say, youíd end up fidgeting a lot more in your effort to cover your awkwardness. Stand or sit down calmly, and just look around to find a new inspiration to talk about.

# Be interested

Seem genuinely interested when youíre talking to someone youíve just met. And try your best to look focused and avoid appearing distracted. Distraction is an annoying insult to someone whoís taking time to answer you or have a conversation with you.

# Stop judging yourself

Itís completely acceptable to say something silly or stupid now and then. Stop holding yourself back in the fear of saying something that you think will be judged. People are forgiving and likeable if you seem like a relaxed person, so just laugh your slipups off and no one will care!

# Donít be overeager

Donít be an eager beaver whoís waiting to please. Donít talk about meeting up again sometime or try making plans to catch up for a movie. Youíll just end up sounding like a clingy leech. If youíve had a nice time and have to say goodbye, say something like "we should catch up sometime again"ù or "I had a wonderful time talking to you, Iíd love to see you again sometimeÖ"