9 Tips NOT To Get A Girl To Like You

Knowing how to get a girl to like you isn’t easy. But if you want to be the guy who attracts all girls, here’s what you need to know about a girl’s mind.

Figuring out how to get a girl to like you does not have to be such hard work. It isn’t about wooing her or impressing her but actually getting to know her.

When you want a girl to like you, it’s because you like her. Show her that. Show her you appreciate her as a person.

What girls want from a guy is to be seen and understood. It isn’t about telling her she’s pretty, buying her jewelry, or even being a traditional gentleman. Ensuring you’re being genuine about your intentions is most important.

# Do not disregard consent

This may be the most important thing on this list. Never disregard consent. Whether you are putting her hair behind her ear or trying to kiss her, make sure it is okay with her first. If she says no or doesn’t say yes, it means no.

Do not assume she’s playing hard to get or trying to be coy. If she isn’t interested, accept it. It is one thing to flirt without knowing for sure if she’s interested. It is another thing to make a move that makes her uncomfortable.

# Do not comment on her body

It may seem like a compliment to tell her you love her curves, but you don’t know how she feels about her body so keep your compliments away from there. You can say she is fit, or that she looks amazing in an outfit. You can tell her she’s beautiful, but avoid commenting on her weight or size.

# Do not judge her food choices

Whether she is eating a salad or a platter of fries, do not judge her on her choices. She is doing what feels right for her, for her own reasons. You may think telling her she can eat more than a salad and still look great is a compliment, but, trust me, it is not.

# Do not comment on her dating history

Whether she went through a tough breakup or has a colorful dating history, it isn’t your place to comment on that. Don’t say, ‘well, you’ve dated everyone else in the office’ or ‘isn’t seeing me better than being single?’. These are entirely rude and manipulative ways to get a girl to go out with you.

# Do not get someone else to talk you up

If you like this girl, you need to make some face time. Actually, talk to her. Getting a friend or coworker to talk you up or put the idea in her head is a middle school move and only shows your lack of confidence.

# Do not stare

I know TV makes staring into her eyes seem romantic and although eye contact is good when you’re talking, just staring at her without saying anything is super creepy. Don’t do it. she’ll think you’re sleeping with your eyes open or being a weirdo. If you think she is gorgeous, just tell her.

# Do not pester her

If you like her, get to know her at a normal pace. Don’t constantly come by her place, text her, or call her. This will only be overkill. And by all means, don’t ask if you’re bothering her or apologize for annoying her. This is probably one of the least attractive things a guy can do.

If you are hoping she’ll like you back, putting the idea of you bugging her in her head will not help.

# Do not put her on a pedestal

You may think she wants to be treated like a queen but in reality, she wants to be treated with respect. Acting like she is way out of your league and like you’re beneath her will only turn her off and make her feel pressure to be perfect.

# Do not be inappropriate

This means do not make sexist jokes, do not send unsolicited photos, or ask for sexy photos. This is the last way to get a girl to like you. This doesn’t show confidence but sleaziness. It is not how a decent guy attracts a girl’s attention.